ARE YOU KIDDING ME?

L - J - R

Its 25 days to go my friend way back in HS will spend a month here in Manila. Its been 8 years since the last time we saw each other. Things changed and I am sure stories to be shared will shock us. We were PPG(Power Puff Girls), Me, HS Friend 1 - R and HS Friend 2 - L. We were in denial lesbians way back high school, we tried to hide ourselves, we were scared I guess. Then again, things changed, but for sure I am a lesbian, we are all lesbians. :))

Well I had this former office mate, before Christmas, we had this mini misunderstanding, I could not even remember my bbm message. But to make it easier to explain, we had a petty fight thru bbm. I guess the reason was she was too tired and stressed at work to receive heavy jokes from me. Then she exploded to think, I am sure, she knows I am a joker type person who doesn't and not really into petty fights. I mean seriously, I am all love, Its all love. You don't know me if you take my jokes against me. I haven't talked to her since then. I never want to speak to her again since, HS friend 1 is her girlfriend, this is to avoid disputes.

Come one day, I messaged my friend R, asked her where will she stay for the whole vacation, she told me that she will be spending the whole month with her GF, but she's planning to stay at my house prolly for a few days since she wanted to spend more time with her lovey dove. I as a friend informed her that my house is welcome for her stay.

After a few, I saw her Gfs post at FB

“sorry naman at hindi ako rich like you na nakatira sa bonggang bahay na tahimik na village. Yung mga tao kasi samin mga halang ang kaluluwa gusto mo mafeel kung gano kahalang te h”

I confronted R, told her that I have read her Gfs post on FB. I told her I did not like how she reacted, as if I belittled her. I told R that its not what I meant and I don't mean to offend, It seems that my offer was a big mistake to think we(PPG) haven't seen each other for almost 8 years. But what striked me hard, was when the moment R told me to apologize to her Gf, and I was like “Are you kidding me R???”

See I was just looking for Rs approval to spend time with us L. I don't need to explain myself to her Gf to think it was her idea to think that way. I see nothing wrong to whatever statement she found offensive, I didn't even.. urghh! This is so cheap! Making this blog make me think of how cheap Rs Gf!

To R, you are such a nice friend and a gf to defend her, although you weren't fair with your judgement.I hope she gets all the sympathy she wants from you.

For her Gf, sometimes I doubt you being a friend to me, I am not sure of what you've become since we parted in our last work, then again I am not saying sorry. Instead, I hope you become aware of your actions.You graduated with an award to a reputable school, right?. The post you made was very disgusting and made me realize that education does not really classify class. I am not expecting to have our “great” friendship back. Whatever your drama is, I don't like it. I am not closing my door to our friendship though but expect that things could never be the same.
Lets JUST try to be civil for R.